I heard Rick Warren say in an informal gathering one time life is usually not all bad or all good. It’s usually a mix of both. True. He then went on to say in his experience life ran like a train turning on two rails–leaning to one side or the other. Straightaways when everything is in perfect balance does happen, but it’s rare. Most of the time, one side or the other is under pressure. When things are good at home, ministry often leans tough. You go through a season of discouragement, the church goes through a plateau or decline, a key staff member leaves. Conversely, when ministry is good, home life sometimes gets tough. You can feel it pressure the track as someone falls ill, your marriage goes under pressure, money tightens up, or a child rebels.
There are obviously times when life is on the straightaways. However, no route is perfectly straight. There are always turns, where things lean heavily one direction. The key is a non-anxious, steady hand supplied by God to live between the rails. We do this through prayer, drinking from the wellspring of the Word, and living according to it. This keeps us from neglecting things that need attention or overreacting at the wheel when we feel the life train lean to one side, causing a derailment.
Inasmuch as it depends on us, lets live between the rails. When you feel it lean, with a steady hand supplied by God’s peace, guide it back to the straight. Lean into the turn. Trying to drive straight when on that sort of curve puts us at risk of derailment. Don’t pretend the curve isn’t there.
I have friends who have lost their families because they pretended the curve wasn’t there. I have other friends who have lost their ministries because they ignored those curves in the track. I have many friends as well who reached their final destination even though sparks flew at various times in life.
I want to be one of those people–I want to finish strong. I turned 37 yesterday. My genogram says I’m probably about half done, if the Lord wills. I want the last leg to be my best. We all should want our last leg to be our best.
There’s only one way. I listen intently to God’s Word, His Spirit’s promptings, the world around me, and lean into the curves life brings in ways that honor Him.